Starting school is an exciting milestone, but it can also feel like a big step for children and parents.
School readiness isn’t about being perfect or academic. It’s about everyday skills that help children feel confident, independent and ready to settle into school life.
What Does “School Readiness” Really Mean?
Children develop at different rates, but there are some key everyday skills that help them feel confident when starting school:
- Managing simple routines
- Playing and sharing with others
- Talking and listening
- Beginning to manage their own self-care
Everyday Routines Matter
Simple daily routines help children feel secure and independent.
These include:
- Getting dressed (with support if needed)
- Putting on coats and shoes
- Tidying toys away
- Following simple instructions
- Managing mealtimes and bedtime routines
Practising these skills at home builds confidence and makes school feel less overwhelming.
[Link to Give it Time / routines resource]
Toileting Confidence
Most children are expected to be toilet confident when they start school.
Practising toileting at home helps children:
- Feel independent
- Settle into the school day
- Avoid disruption and embarrassment
Every child develops at their own pace, but starting early and being consistent makes a real difference.
If you need advice or support with toileting, you can find trusted guidance here:
[Link to Health Visiting / FIS toileting resource]
Play Builds Confidence and Independence
Play is one of the most important ways children prepare for school.
Through play, children learn to:
- Take turns
- Share
- Listen
- Solve problems
- Build friendships
You don’t need structured activities — everyday play at home is enough.
[Link to Play / Sports resource]
Early Literacy Starts at Home
Schools teach children to read and write, but families lay the foundations.
You don’t need to teach phonics or letters before school. Instead, focus on:
- Talking together
- Singing songs
- Sharing stories
- Listening and responding
These everyday moments build the skills children need for learning.
[Link to Tiny Happy People / Talk with Me / Cymraeg i Blant]
Reassurance for Parents
It’s normal to feel unsure about whether your child is “ready”.
School readiness is about confidence, communication and independence - not ticking boxes.
If you would like further information or support, please contact:
[FIS contact details]
Getting Ready Together
By working together, families, early years settings and schools, we can help children feel confident and ready for their next step.